joi, 1 iulie 2010

Relations and love

Another good qualified person to give advice on relationships is a minister or a clergyman this type of counselor or marriage advisor can give the couples advice from the religious aspect of the relationship. A minister or clergyman will advise couples in the ways proper to the eyes or their God. What is healthy and what is not healthy on or out of relationships. Ministers can also advise couples who want to enter into a relationship for the first time, or those in relationships that are experiencing difficulties. Most often, the minister of the couple’s local church is the person who is called when an issue arises.
Please keep in mine that anything you discuss with either a professional counselor or ministers kept in the greatest of confidence. This means that what you say to them about your personal life and any difficulties you may have remains secrete and is not shared with any other person unless it is a collogue. If they were to discuss any details of your session’s with others they could loose their license and no longer counsel others.
It might be safe to receive advice from experts on relationships and or marriage from a couple who have been together for a long time. Many couples have managed to remain together through several difficult times and issues life has thrown at them. Therefore, it would be safe to ask them about certain issues this is if you know the couple well and may speak freely to them. It’s not recommended to just walk up to an older couple and begin talking about things out of the air this would be considered rude and inappropriate. This could also be embarrassing to you as well as to the couple being, approached.
If however you do know of some friends of the families you have know for quite some time go and sit and visit with them they would love to talk and share their secrets on how they have been together for a long period of time. Most likely they will tell you some of the major factors involve a strong spiritual bond with their God, unconditional love, sacrifice, the ability to listen, the ability to keep moving forward no matter what happens, and always communicate with each other about everything. This is good advice for anyone in any relationship.

Men and women

A man that finds something about you that attracted his attention will try to get to know you better. Some of things men are attracted to or falls in love with about a woman may be the woman’s smile, or her inner glow or her outgoing personality. A man may be attracted to a woman’s because of her laughs or how intelligent she is there are many different aspects of a woman so a man may fall in love with many things about a woman.
However, if someone were to ask your man what one thing about you attracted his love for you what would you say it was maybe you’re take-charge attitude or your shy way of saying “Hi how are you? Something attracted his love and affection for you something he wanted to be apart of his life.
A woman should always be herself no play-acting or role-playing this only brings problems a man will fall in love with the real you faster than some person who you wish you were. Let him get to know you that is good enough and if it is not well then it is his loss not your. If a woman has to pretend to be someone other than whom or what she really is then the relationship begins with falsities and deceit. A relationship like this only ends badly and was a waste of both your time and his, now on the other hand if after the man falls in love with you and he choose to pretend things in the relationship together this is a healthy activity.
Let the man tell you what he fell in love with about you or what he is attracted to about you. Then the both of you have a stable beginning to work with and build on in the relationship.
Most men are not attracted to an aggressive woman or a woman who constantly peruses after him. Let him make the first move if he does not then you may approach him then back off way off and let him come to you. This is difficult to do however if it is right and he falls in love with something about you, you already have him hooked.